Terms of Service

Last updated October 2026

These terms apply when you use grumszn.com or buy The Curator or a session with Julian. Grūm SZN is a brand of Bespoke317, LLC, an Illinois limited liability company (“we”). By creating a profile or making a purchase, you agree to these terms.

What Grūm SZN offers

Free Game and The Playbook are free to read. The Curator is a premium planning service sold as a one-time purchase in three tiers: Polished, Immaculate and Splurge-Worthy. Immaculate and Splurge-Worthy include one-on-one sessions with Julian Harrell, and any Curator client can add sessions.

Your profile

You need a profile to use The Curator. Keep your sign-in details private and the information you give us accurate. You’re responsible for activity on your profile, and you can ask us to delete it at any time.

Purchases and access

Prices are shown in US dollars and charged once; there are no subscriptions. Any applicable tax is calculated at checkout. Upgrades are charged at the difference between tiers. Access to The Curator lasts through your wedding date plus 45 days. Your plan PDF is yours to keep.

Sessions

Sessions are 45 minutes, by video unless we agree otherwise. Evening (after 6 p.m.) and weekend times cost 25% more. Rescheduling and cancellation are covered in our Refund & Rescheduling Policy.

Refunds

All purchases are final. See the Refund & Rescheduling Policy for details.

Recommendations, not professional advice

Grūm SZN shares personal experience and general ideas. Nothing on the site, in The Curator or in a session is legal, financial, insurance, medical or mental-health advice. Talk with a qualified professional for decisions like budgets, contracts, insuring a ring, or starting a fitness or wellness routine.

Brands and links

The Shortlist recommends brands we know and love. Some links may earn Grūm SZN a commission at no cost to you, and picks are never paid placements unless labeled. Purchases from other brands are between you and that brand.

Our content

The writing, photos, designs and the Grūm SZN name and logo belong to Grūm SZN or are used with permission. You’re welcome to use The Curator and your plan for your own wedding, but please don’t copy or resell our content.

Limits on our responsibility

We work hard to make Grūm SZN useful, but we provide it as is. To the extent the law allows, our total responsibility for any claim is limited to the amount you paid us, and we aren’t responsible for indirect losses.

Changes and contact

We may update these terms; the date above shows the latest version. These terms are governed by the laws of Illinois. Questions? Email grumszn@gmail.com.